Hmmm let me think... ever known someone that has played the victim role since the first day you met them? But, subsequently you fell for the cry me a river role to try to rectify their situation. Maybe you did things from the heart or just tried to help that person out from material or monetary items. Then there comes a point when you have exhausted all of your mental and emotional reserve for that individual. A timeout or game over is called for self reserve; but at the same time trying not to burn all ties, with a check in every now and then with the me against the world person you call a friend. Then all of a sudden you find yourself being the one that made your cry me a river friend the reason why they cried a river! Now all allegations are against you; and you weren't there for them... SMCH(sound made when the situation is unbelievable)! Now all of a sudden they forget the one that stayed up late at night with them on the phone,who gave them a ride when they needed one, gave them a little extra change when they needed some, gave them advice, and did everything you could to make the situation more manageable. Now the table has turned and you haven't been there when they needed you and just abandoned them!
Hmmmm....How easily we forget! The people who have did what they could no matter how big or small the situation may be you are not in the equation of the people who have helped them out or supported them along the way.
What are the circumstances or situations that you have encountered of the how easily we forget people?
1 comment:
i know what u mean, i wrote something like that a while back here http://rawdawgb.blogspot.com/2008/02/if-they-do-nothing-4-u-u-are-worth.html
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